Let’s face it—keeping up with teen slang can feel like trying to learn a foreign language. But instead of focusing on the eyebrow-raising phrases that might make you worry, let’s talk about the fun, positive ones your kids are using. Bonus: you can even use these words yourself (cue the eye rolls) to spice up family conversations or just tease them a little!

Here’s your crash course in modern slang—because who doesn’t want to keep their rizz factor in check?

1. Bussin’

When something is “bussin’,” it’s top-tier, absolutely amazing—especially when it comes to food. Think of it as the ultimate compliment for your dinner recipe or the snacks at a party.

Example:
“This barbecue is bussin’, Mom!”

2. Crash Out

This doesn’t mean falling asleep (like you might assume). Instead, “crash out” is when someone has a mini meltdown or overreacts to something minor.

Example:
“I spilled my drink and forgot my headphones. I’m about to crash out!”

3. Glow Up

A “glow up” is like a major transformation, but in the best way possible. It’s about becoming more confident, stylish, or polished.

Example:
“Remember Alex from middle school? He’s had such a glow-up!”

4. Slay

No horror movie references here—“slay” is all about success. If someone is “slaying,” they’re doing an amazing job.

Example:
“You slayed that presentation at work, Dad!”

5. Let Them Cook

When you “let someone cook,” you’re giving them the space to do their thing—whether it’s telling a story, explaining a point, or showcasing their skills.

Example:
“Let Liam cook! He’s got the best game strategy!”

6. Era

Everyone goes through different “eras,” like phases of life or obsessions. It’s a fun way to describe the moments that define your current vibe.

Example:
“Ella’s in her iced coffee era right now—she can’t start her day without one.”

7. Stan

A “stan” is a die-hard fan of someone or something. It’s a term of admiration, whether it’s for a celebrity, team, or band.

Example:
“We’re total stans of Taylor Swift in this house!”

8. Rizz

Short for charisma, “rizz” is that unexplainable charm or swagger that makes someone effortlessly cool.

Example:
“Our coach has serious rizz—everyone looks up to him.”

9. Main Character

If someone is acting like the “main character,” they’re the center of attention or the star of the moment.

Example:
“Grandma was the main character at the family reunion—everyone was hanging on her every word.”

10. Bet

“Bet” is a casual way to agree or say, “You bet!” It’s quick, cool, and definitely makes you sound in the loop.

Example:
“Are we grabbing ice cream after dinner? Bet!”

By understanding these terms (and maybe even using them), you’re not just staying hip—you’re also connecting with your kids on their level. Who knows? They might even think you’re bussin’ (for a moment, anyway).

Stay tuned for more tips on bridging the generation gap and keeping family communication strong!